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Posted October 31, 2011on:
Division of labor
Being a child
I go back and forth about blogging. About what to blog, about how I feel about blogging it…
I don’t know how I feel about much lately. It is too busy. I am trying. Those same familiar feelings and fears keep toying with me. I am afraid I am only “playing’ okay, and I am not. At all.
I fear I’m not using my grace well. Perhaps it is broken that I need. Always. Perhaps that’s precisely where I should be. But I’m not even there.
I’m in a maze, a hamster wheel.
I want more. Same old story. I expect more. I feel more is expected. I want to meet it, to rise and meet it – all that is before me. But how? Where do I carve this all out? There is so much. Tangible and intangible.
I want to know.
Perhaps, I sleep.
It is necessary. But is it too much? Too little? Why do I only have questions? so, so many questions.
Forgive me. I am perhaps a bigger mess than I’ve been leading one to be.
Sometimes you have to stop, just stop and really let it sink in that today is a wonderful day.
Today is a wonderful day.
Breathing, breathing, breathing it in. Letting go of the busy thoughts, the pushing and the pulling.
Today is a wonderful day.
I am under-stimulated today. So I am restless. This is probably worse than being over-stimulated and exhausted. It breeds a tiny bit of anxiety, like it is a calm before a storm. But not a good, happy calm. A weird one. And I’m trying to re-frame it, but I’m not doing a good job at convincing myself…
Something else odd. We actually had good luck. Jason specifically. He won a 46 inch plasma tv in a work raffle! What!?! I KNOW! Crazy!
Hm. Perhaps things are taking their turn for the better. Actually, they are. I believe that. I BELIEVE THAT.
In the words of a song I love right now “Everything is about to change, there’s gonna be brighter days” That’s right, speaking it into being, right here, believing.
So, I’ll just rest. I’ll just lay in the weird quiet and take it in and own it a bit. Yes, I will.
Sometimes, I think about the blessings I have and I don’t understand. Material things that I don’t necessarily want or need. And then there are these other intangible things that I do want or need. And I feel guilty because I still have so much more than so many others. And I feel sad because I would give up so much to just have the things I really want.
I feel like I should be happy with what I have and do something good and cherish it all, because they are certain blessings.
And I feel like I should be working towards being the person who has what they really want. I have to keep the faith. I have to fake it til I make it, I suppose.
And I have this fear, underneath these other things…that the thing I crave the most is something I am not ready for, something I would mess up if I had it…
so I’m thinking, I should work towards keeping it, even though I don’t have it…I have to believe in the timing, the cosmic timing of it.
I am hungry and tired. Why do I feel that way so much?
My perspective is off this weekend. I feel this weird sort of feeling. I need someone to bounce it off of. I need that thing I always need. I just want to know that everything’s okay.
I guess I’ll just believe it is.
Sometimes, that means moving through the motions of a life, of a day, with my mind and heart far away. As if all of this life is just moonlighting for the real deal that seems just right beyond my grasp, that I get the smallest taste of every once in a while. (the sweetest taste. my most favorite thing. a moment that makes everything else fade away and…it’s too much to write even…)
And regret…regret is useless but tempting. As if it could change anything. Particularly anything a decade old. All I can do is trust this road that has managed to…to allow me some hope and prepare myself for the life I want…there must be a purpose in the blessings, the needs, the moments, the struggle. There’s got to be a purpose in the struggle.
I’m all stirred up and haven’t been able to pour it into anything yet (or onto anyone yet).
You need to trust yourself. Your rhythm. Your instinct. Trust your hesitation. Trust your exuberance. Quiet yourself and listen. Listen. All the answers are right there. The answers need you to trust them The answers need you to have faith in the process. To have faith in the cosmic timing of everything. To have faith in the ability of love. Not just a lover’s love, but love.
To stop biting your tongue, to be honest, does not have to be harsh or angry or defensive, it just has to be confident. It requires you to trust yourself, to trust your knowledge and your needs. To trust your questions.
If your voice within says wait, then wait. If your voice within says go, then go. And just do this, just do all this one step at a time, one moment at a time.
And trust, trust the path your voice is laying out before you.
Be gracious, be kind, be thoughtful in your movements. Be ready for resistance. And be ready to see the right doors open up just in time.
Trust, child, trust.
You can do amazing things, the things you were made for. You just have to trust.